also when i run this form a pop-up window come open with 3 options
1)do you want to add records in a parent table
2)do you want to add records in a child table
3) do you want to add records in both
so i want this pop-up window to stop coming up when i add new record
I take it that you have used the form wizard to build these forms because this is not native behavior.
You would be better off not to use the wizards. There is too much baggage that comes along with them (as you are now discovering).